If you’re a parent or caregiver of a young child, you’ve probably found yourself in a challenging situation when your child is on the verge of a tantrum!  As a parent, I certainly know this well!

However, these days, so many parents seem to rely on ‘smart gadgets’ – a smartphone or tablet as a solution.  As many would be aware, this is not a good idea as research has now found that it can hinder the child’s emotional development.

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Help children build dignity and self-esteem by avoiding belittling them in front of others. When speaking to them, offer the same respect given to adult friends. This approach shows children they are valued and teaches them how to interact respectfully with others. Belittling, especially in public, can make them feel ashamed and insignificant.Instead, provide constructive feedback in private and use kind words to help them understand their mistakes without feeling humiliated. This not only helps them feel respected but also reinforces positive communication skills.

Avoid ridiculing or implying that inappropriate behaviour means the child is bad, as this erodes their sense of worthiness. It's important to remember that their actions do not define their character. When children act out or make mistakes, help them understand why their behaviour is unacceptable and guide them toward better choices. Focusing on behaviour rather than character helps build a positive self-image and a sense of worth, which are crucial for developing confidence and capability.

 
Lastly, be patient as children navigate their emotions and behaviours. Growing up is a learning process filled with trials and errors. Patience and understanding give them the space to explore and learn at their own pace. A safe and supportive environment at home helps them build a strong foundation of self-worth and resilience, contributing to their development into secure and self-assured individuals.

At the same time, it encourages you to extend your branches in the pursuit of your ambitions.

Just as branches reach out towards the sun, you should strive towards your goals and aspirations with vigour and persistence.