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Memo from your child 2

29/5/2024

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The Importance of Boundaries and Respectful Discipline for Children
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As parents, caregivers, or educators, we all want to provide the best possible environment for our children to grow and thrive.

One of the key components to achieving this is setting clear boundaries and limits. When children have a clear understanding of what is expected of them and what behaviours are acceptable, they feel more secure and confident.

Boundaries provide a sense of structure and predictability that is essential for healthy development.


It is important, however, that these boundaries are enforced with respect and kindness, ensuring that discipline is both effective and nurturing.

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Unlocking Potential: Empowering women with ADHD to Thrive: part two

23/5/2024

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self-care and ADHD
navigating intimate relationships with a smile

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Ah, self-care—it's the modern woman's mantra.

From bubble baths (who has time!?) to yoga sessions, it’s all about taking care of yourself.

But there's one area where self-care can get a bit tricky: navigating the waters of intimate relationships when ADHD is involved.

Yes, ADHD isn't just about forgetting where you put your keys; it can also play a starring role in your love life, sometimes turning it into a rollercoaster of epic proportions.

But fear not! Let’s dive into this topic with a sense of humour and a friendly nudge towards understanding.


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Memo from your child

23/5/2024

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1. Don't spoil me

It's important to understand that when your child asks for everything and tests your boundaries, they are not just being difficult; they are seeking structure and guidance.
Spoiling your child by giving in to all their demands can lead to a sense of entitlement, where they expect to receive whatever they want without understanding the value of effort and patience. Setting limits and saying no teaches them essential life skills such as self-control, respect for others, and appreciation for what they have.
By not giving in to every request, you help them develop a sense of responsibility and resilience, preparing them for the real-world challenges they will face as they grow. Remember, children thrive on consistent boundaries and the security of knowing that their parents are guiding them towards becoming well-rounded individuals.

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For example, consider a scenario where your child asks for a new toy every time you go to the shops.

While it might be easier to buy the toy to avoid a tantrum, consistently saying yes can lead to the expectation that they will always get what they want.

Instead, use this as an opportunity to teach them about patience and earning rewards. Explain that they can't have a new toy every time, but perhaps they can earn it by completing chores or achieving a personal goal. This approach not only helps them understand that rewards come from effort and good behaviour but also instils a sense of accomplishment when they finally earn the toy.

Over time, these lessons in delayed gratification and responsibility will help your child develop into a more considerate and grounded individual.  And remember, it's not about depriving your child but about being thoughtful and intentional with what you provide, ensuring they learn important life lessons along the way.







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